Thursday, August 13, 2009

Day Five

Absence makes the heart grow fonder

Latest development: MIL has successfully going through an operation on her eye and recuperated at her youngest daughter's mansion somewhere in Penang. She seem to be happy over there especially she was being attended by a couple of high ranking doctors.

I got a feeling that she wanna overstay and be pampered by her specialist daughter and her beloved son-in-law, another specialist! Frankly, I'm not happy with the presence situation especially when I got to know my dearest wife was not feeling well. Even though she tried to hide her fever and coughing from me, but I was able to detect her discomforted well-being.

What can I say? I'm her Hubby and I know my soul partner very well indeed. She knows I would be worried and she really does not want to trouble me unnecessarily. No matter how hard she tried to hide it from me, eventually I came to know about her condition especially when I realized how hard she tried to avoid from talking with me.

She kept on sending me text messages which was very unusual. Like me, she wouldn't missed the chance to have a conversation via our hand-phone as regularly as possible. Deep inside me, I felt there's something amiss somewhere. Upon hearing her voice when she took my call, it confirmed my suspicion. I know she's not feeling well.

Now, I'm starting to worry. I kept on asking her when she's coming home, persuaded her to go to the hospital, gave herself medical check-up at a clinic and asking a thousand and one other questions. In other words, I felt unhappy and I felt so sad. I want my precious wife to be with me. I want to take good care of her like I used to do whenever she was sick and not well.

The truth is, I miss her so much, very very much indeed! In fact I had readied myself to go to be with her in Penang, but after a lengthy conversations she has managed to convince me that everything gonna be alright. She has decided to get back home tomorrow even though she has to leave my MIL with her favourite daughter and beloved son-in-law if needed. I'm sure my MIL will be well taken care of.

I know it has been only five days we were not together, but I felt it was the longest five insufferable days! It's okay during the day, but when the night took over life became intolerable indeed. When it was time to go to bed, I would take her place which is always on my left hand side. Then I would use her blanket to cover myself up.

Now I know the reason why a crying kid was given something that belong to her mother to hold? Same thing happened to me. When I took her place on our marital bed, using her pillows and blanket I got to smell my beloved wife body's odour, so sweet it soothed and making me felt so calm as if I was holding her close to me like we used to do...

Wednesday, August 12, 2009

In Absentia

Today is the fourth day I'm alone in the house. Frankly, life is not the same without my beloved wife. I felt there's something missing. And I've even posted something about it on FaceBook.

Four days ago, my Darling together with her eldest sister and my mother-in-law (MIL) went up to Penang. MIL was having an operation on her eye and I was left behind to care of the house in their absence.

Most of the time, I would sit in front of my PC YMing with a few close friend while on the background Pink Floyd played beautiful music to my ears. Mek Yam said something about absence makes the heart grow fonder and I have to agree with her. Now I'm just like a teenager who have stumble into a thing called love. Yeah, I'm still in love with my Dearie. It was just like during those days when I was wooing her with my undying loves!

I like this kind of feeling. You know the kind when you're in love and you have someone who love you back even more. Many of my friends and relatives said I'm one lucky guy and I tend to agree with them. I never thought I could rise up again after what I did and done. Thank God my Cherry-Pie came along and pick me up. As the Longgeng's folks used to say, the rest is history. And I am grateful...

Sunday, December 21, 2008

The Marriage Destroyer

Wreaking Havoc

Some readers have been asking me whether what I wrote is true and how could I be so mean?

As I'm getting tired answering every inquiries, I would like them to refer them to this blog's disclaimer. I hope by reading the disclaimer it will stop any questioning hereafter.

Well, that has been taken of. Now let's get on with the rest of the story. As a precaution, whatever you gonna read please remember the DISCLAIMER, kah kah kah!

Until now I'm still wondering, why did the fake Little Mermaid was so mad at me and vowed to wreak havoc upon my life. I really don't mind if it was me she was after, but the morning she picked up her mobile to call my beloved wife, she has unwisely declaring war with me. She has no other purpose than to destroy my sacred marriage. Maybe she thought after calling my honey-pie, my dear wife will turn on me with vengeance for having an affair behind her back!

My God, she has no idea who is my sweet little wife? My sweetheart is never anything like the fake Little Mermaid. She got class unlike the Marriage Destroyer who would shout, attacked and scratching her victim with her long fingernails without asking first. Always staying true with her motto, scratch first, questions later! Kah! Kah! Kah!

Let me pictures several scenario for the Marriage Destroyer to ponder;

1. Was it my mistake when you finally ends up marrying an addict?

2. Was it my mistake again for you being so choosy and ends up marrying the wrong guy whereas you had so many suitors? The one who took your virgin and taught you all the arts of f@#$%&*! Oops, let us be discreet here. The arts of making love. That's much better, don't you think?

3. Then there was your swimming student. After every swimming session, both of you would take a bath together, washing each other body and so forth. Let not get into every details coz I'm sure you can reviewed the scene very well.

4. There was many others which will take several pages to list out all of their names. Yeah I know, like you always mentioned they were all very eligible, very wealthy, handsome and who treated you like a princess (your claimed, not mine).

5. But please bear in mind Marriage Destroyer, all those guys you proudly mentioned happened to come to your life about ten years ago when you were in your early twenties. You've been living in a world of fantasy. Please come back to earth coz all of them are married now. They have their own life and families. Or do you intent to wreak havoc to their married life too like you did to me?

6. Enough is enough. Go on and take care of your husband. No matter how bad he was, he is still your husband